Grandparents Day falls on the first Sunday after Labor Day, and there is no shortage of ways to celebrate this special day. Whether your grandparents are still living or have passed on, take some time out of your busy life to honor your grandparents. Celebrate all that they mean to you with these Grandparents Day activities.
Ideas for Celebrating Grandparents Day
Cynics may want to believe that Grandparents Day is just another trumped-up way to sell more greeting cards, candy, and flowers, but it still means something to many grandparents across the USA. With that in mind, consider the following ideas for celebrating this holiday in a meaningful way.
Send a Card With Something Extra
Don't just send a card; include a handwritten letter. While a card is a nice way to show that you care, it's even more fun to send a letter with news about your life. A letter written by a young grandchild will also increase the cuteness factor and sentimental value.
Homemade Gifts From the Heart
Have your children give their grandparents a homemade gift or drawing. The grandparents will appreciate the time and effort the children put into their creations, and they'll treasure them more than any retail trinket.
Visit in Person
Clear your calendar and go visit your grandparents in person. A few hours of your time can mean a lot, and you never know how many more holidays you may have together.
Make a Phone Call
If you can't visit in person, your grandparents would still love to hear your voice. Set aside some time for a nice long phone call. This gives you all an opportunity to catch up on what's going on in your lives or reminisce about older memories.
Hold a Family Photo Shoot
Surprise Grandma and Grandpa with a fun photoshoot. Tell them to dress in their finest frocks and meet you at a designated location. When they arrive, have a photographer ready to snap some memorable images of them. You can incorporate other family members into this idea as well. Consider having all of their grandchildren present and taking some pictures with the varying generations.
Perform a Play
Do you have a gang of creative minds in your family? Put a play on for your grandparents. Use a favorite family memory, humor, and props to set the scene. Your grandparents will appreciate the effort and time it takes to put something like this together, and everyone can have fun participating in the production.
Write a Poem
If you have children, make this a family activity. Together, construct a poem specially made with grandparents in mind. The poem can be silly or sentimental. Have everyone sign their name to the poem and consider framing it so that your grandparents can keep it safe and intact forever.
Organize a Movie Date
What a special treat for grandma to get all dressed up and head out to the picture show with her beloved grandchildren. See if any theaters are playing classics and take her back in time. Consider making this type of "date" an annual occurrence.
Buy Matching 23andMe Kits
Ensure your grandma or grandpa are up for learning more about where they came from and then purchase matching DNA kits. Together you can discover so much more than you previously knew about where you both came from.
Host a Luncheon or Dinner
Hold a luncheon or dinner in honor of your grandparents. Be sure to include other family members who also want to spend time with Grandma and Grandpa on this day.
Share Family History
Dedicate the day to learning more about the past and listen carefully to your grandparents' stories. Record them on tape, or write them down to create a lasting record of your family's history. If you're interested in genealogy, you can also use this time to expand on your family tree.
Plan a Grandparents Day Event
Plan a school or church event. Taking part in a special presentation can help you honor your grandparents on a larger scale. It might be nice to offer refreshments as well.
Share a Grandparent's Hobby
Ask your grandparents to teach you about their favorite hobby. Whether they prefer bird watching, gardening, golfing, riding bikes, or playing poker, they'll enjoy the opportunity to share a favorite pastime with you. Grandparents love nothing more than teaching!
Build Something Together
A grandparent can do wonders with a hammer and some nails. Build something together that will live on long past your dear elders. Fashion a birdhouse or a bench for the garden. Paint a special quote or write an inside joke on the item to personalize it.
Cook A Family Recipe
Have your grandparent choose a recipe from their childhood or her heritage and make the dish together. Spend an afternoon learning how to make the recipe and then listen to their stories of decades long ago while you feast together. Food is an excellent way to connect to one's culture and heritage.
Have a Sleepover
If you have younger children, make Grandparents Day into an annual sleepover. Arrange for all of your parents' grandchildren to stay with Grammie and Gramps for a weekend retreat. They can bake cookies, watch movies, and camp out in the living room. Time with grandparents is crucial to children.
Take a Trip
If you and your grandparents are feeling up for some adventure, try road tripping. Every Grandparents Day weekend set out on a trip with your grandma or grandpa. Visit places near and dear to them, like the city in which they were born, or discover new places each year.
Do Their Yardwork
The older people become, the harder raking, pruning, and lawn mowing is. Gather your siblings up and head to your grandparents' home for Grandparents Day. Bring all the yard work tools that you might need to spruce up the home and yard. Paint fences, trim trees, weed garden beds, and hang flowering baskets.
Have Virtual Story Time
If your family lives far away from grandparents, you can still find ways to connect on Grandparents Day. Purchase a copy of a story for your child and your parent. Connect them on Facetime or Zoom, and they can read the story together.
Plant a Tree
Plant a tree with your grandma or grandpa. When they pass on, you will remember their love every time you sit beneath its shade. Read under the tree's branches, built a tree fort in it someday with your own children, and allow that tree you plant together to be a space dedicated to your grandma or grandpa's memory.
Sign Up for a Class Together
Think of something that you have always wanted to learn, like pottery or knitting. Ask your dear granny to take a class at a community center with you. Even if she is a professional with knitting needles, she will likely attend just so that she can spend quality time with you.
Ways to Honor Grandparents Who Have Passed Away
Just because you have lost your grandparents doesn't mean you shouldn't celebrate them. Try out these ideas for your beloved grandparents.
Visit the Cemetery
Consider visiting your grandparents' graves and planting some fall mums or placing a wreath on them. Even spending a few moments of silence remembering them and the times you shared together can make the day special.
Light a Candle
Lighting a candle is a very symbolic gesture, and it's a lovely way to pay homage to your grandparents. You could light a candle at church or light one at home and let it burn all day long in a safe location.
Hold a Dinner in Memory
Gather members of your family for a special dinner to commemorate your grandparents' lives. Ask everyone to bring their favorite photos to share, and set a special place at the table for each grandparent to show they are still present in spirit, if not in person. Ideally, try to serve some dishes made from some of their family recipes.
Volunteer at a Senior Center or Nursing Home
Consider volunteering to spend time with seniors who may not have any grandchildren to visit them. The nursing home or senior center staff can help identify lonely seniors and might like some company. You could talk with them and let them share stories about their lives and families, or they may enjoy being read to. If you form a bond with a particular senior, you might even like to continue visiting on a more regular basis.
Fashion a Plaque
Have a plaque made with Grandma or Grandpa's favorite saying on it. The plaque can be hung in the home or the yard. You can even attach it to a favorite tree or bench. Each time you gaze at the plaque, you will remember your grandparent's wise words.
Make a Donation
What charities did or would your grandparents be involved in if they were alive today? Was your grandpa a veteran? Consider supporting a military organization to honor him. Did your grandmother love her cats more than life itself? Donate to a cat rescue center each year in her honor.
Honor Them at Church
If your grandparents were devout religious folk, honor them at a local church service. On Grandparents Day weekend, have a special prayer said for them or make an extra generous donation to the church on that weekend each year.
Do Something That They Loved
If your grandfather loved to fish, take your own children fishing on Grandparents Day weekend in honor of his memory. If your grandma loved gardening, plant a new flower or bush in your yard on this weekend each year. Think of the things that they loved and engage in those activities to help remember them.
Re-Fashion a Family Heirloom
Did your grandma or grandpa leave you something before they passed? Perhaps you have some old jewelry of your grandmothers or tools that were once your grandpas. Take the time to restore them to their initial beauty. Old broaches and gems can be reset and polished up. Tools and be fixed up and used for years to come.
Wear Something Special
Did your grandpa have a favorite tie, or was he a suspenders fellow? Pay tribute to his iconic fashion on Grandparents Day by wearing something that he often wore. Did your grandmother wear hats each Sunday to church? Dress up and wear an old hat of hers or a new hat that she would have adored on Grandparents Day.
What Really Matters to Your Grandparents
It doesn't matter if you plan an elaborate celebration or plan to share some quiet time together. Your grandparents will still appreciate hearing from you and spending time with you, no matter what you have planned for the day. What really matters to them most is that you care enough to mark the day with them, so make the most of the time you have together.