Senior Dating Services
From LoveToKnow Seniors
Romantics over the age of 55 appreciate the personalized approach of senior dating services as a means to finding the best partner. Unlike many senior singles sites, where people take baby steps before meeting others, dating services host events and personal one-on-one sessions to encourage mingling and conversation between interested individuals.
Dating through the Ages
For centuries, in cultures throughout the world, a matchmaker held a prominent place in society. Some ethnic groups looked upon arranged marriages as beneficial matches for the family as a whole, so often a family employed the services of a matchmaker for offspring to ensure solid liaisons.
Homesteaders making their way along the uncharted frontier of western America modeled social opportunities after upper-class balls and cotillions from the East, and arranged church gatherings. These functions were the rare times when young and old alike had time to mingle and get to know one another. In most situations, there was at least one knowledgeable individual who calmed parents’ fears about a potential suitor or knew the details of a widow’s bounty.
In today’s hectic world, generations within any community liken meeting new friends and potential mates to searching for the proverbial haystack-buried needle. Matchmakers and dating agencies, particularly senior dating services, aim to bring people together who share interests, hobbies, even professions, in order to make the introduction process easier.
When Social Circles Aren’t Enough
Many seniors have a busy dance card. Involved as you may be in your career, family affairs, and community activities, the longtime friends and associates found in these circles are certainly enriching. But the opportunity for dating is nearly nonexistent. That's when a senior dating service is a helpful alternative.
Those in smaller communities also have a need to step outside the city limits in order to find potential partners. This might seem like an impractical suggestion at first, but many senior dating services work discreetly in conjunction with numerous senior travel opportunities that mix adventure and interests with like-minded individuals.
Options for Senior Dating Services
The Process
The majority of senior dating services start the process by asking applicants to complete a detailed questionnaire. A compatibility profile is widely advertised as a feature of many dating sites and agencies, but frankly, any quality service includes this as part of its introductory process.
After the application is reviewed, senior dating services and other agencies arrange a one-on-one, free consultation with the applicant in order to understand preferences and goals. The consultation is either handled by the company founder or authorized representatives.
Some agencies also conduct a background check or screening of the applicant, primarily for the safety of all potential companions.
Some services also require applicants to take a personality evaluation or meet with a staff psychologist.
Each agency has a different method for arranging introductions:
- Sometimes introductions are in a group setting at a special interest function.
- Others are part of the service’s social calendar.
- Another option is a private luncheon between the agency’s representative and the two interested parties.
- Depending on the participant’s level of comfort, other senior dating services provide phone numbers for applicants to call one another directly.
The Cost
There is not a lot of information available on the cost of a dating service. Fees vary widely based on the agency’s features, benefits, and clientele. The baseline for dating services is approximately $350. However, depending on the agency and its specialty, the average cost can run into the thousands.
The membership terms start at six months, and some last as long as two years.
Senior Dating Services
The dating services listed below cover a wide range of interests, economic status, and professions.
Valenti International touts that its matchmaking services are “done in the European tradition.” It’s considered to be one of the more exclusive dating services.
It’s Just Lunch is a dating agency available in many areas of the U.S. and Canada. The concept is having lunch with someone is just one way to meet other singles, and if it doesn’t work out, “it’s just lunch.” This is a more accessible dating service for those wanting to try a personal approach, instead of going online.
Great Expectations has locations in select cities around the U.S. Each location hosts events and intimate gatherings, but senior singles can also look for prospective partners online.
Executive Senior Dating is a senior dating service that helps singles all over the nation meet up by phone or e-mail, after first working with a compatibility counselor. This site explains the levels of membership and fees well.
Additional Information
If you’re curious about what others might say about senior dating services and other agencies, visit Consumer Affairs.com. Most of the postings on this site are individual experiences, so use discretion in your evaluation, but it might help you learn more about what to watch out for and what questions to ask ahead of time.
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